Oh boy we are officially one month away from the Big Day!  Am I getting nervous?  Absolutely-but not about the marriage.  I am nervous about the day in general.  I never understood what was so stressful about being a bride, but I realized it is about relinquishing control.  You have to trust other people to do their jobs.  You have to trust the flowers will show up on time.  You have to trust the photographer will be there on time.  You have to trust the driver is going to pick you up and get there on time.  You have to trust that the weather will be cooperative.  Tons of stuff that I have absolutely no control over, and it is frustrating!!!

We sent out the invites about three weeks ago, and still waiting to get about 2/3 of them back.  It is funny when you are sending them out thinking oh boy I hope not everyone can make it, it is going to be pricey, but then when you start getting the no's it really gives your ego a shot.  You start to think, oh did I do something to offend them?  Or whats worse is the people who haven't responded yet.  You sit and think wait, don't they already know if they are coming or not?  Were they really lying to me when they said they were excited for my wedding?  If they are so excited, why have they not rsvp'ed??  It is so ridiculous!  No wonder I have been grinding my teeth at night!  What did you guys find to be the most stressfull things when you were getting down to one month?